The internet has a lot to answer for...now don't get Me wrong if it wasn't for the internet I wouldn't identify as Demisexual, I wouldn't have discovered a thriving community of fellow kinksters, a squish, or be writing this, so there are goods to the place, but You mustn't believe everything you read in here...and … Continue reading Ok once more for the Kiddies at the back who weren’t listening the first time…or the second…or third…and who are probably not listening this time either. →

It's been a good while since I posted a nude...indeed posted anything at all! Life has an unfortunate knack of getting in the way, in my case the 9-5 combined with a negative headspace and no inclination to shoot at all. But an offer from a friend on Twitter, even though I had to decline … Continue reading Gradually getting back into the photographic saddle… →

As my confidence and experience in photography grows, I've started to take an interest in alternative printing processes. In this case Cyanotypes. The cyanotype was discovered in 1842 by Sir John Hershel and is the second oldest photographic negative process after Fox Talbot's Calotype from 1841. In 1843 Anna Atkins used Cyanotypes to illustrate Her … Continue reading Alternative printing process… →

One of the best things about having a blog that few people take notice of is the fact I can write whatever I like. I know the whole point of a blog is to write about things You enjoy, things You're interested in, but I can literally write whatever I want, say and share whatever … Continue reading Freedom to write what I like. →

I took this during my first adult shoot which to date has been my only adult shoot. It was an image I overlooked when I first posted other images from the shoot on an adult modelling sites was a member of at the time, as I thought I needed something more explict. It's an image … Continue reading →

I've reneged on my blog for way to long. Starting to post content and getting back into the swing of things, using the language of writing, figuring out what to post is hard I'm not going to lie. To ease myself back into things I'm going to post an image...it's one of my favourite images. … Continue reading →

As I've said before as a Demisexual I do not experience Primary sexual attraction. Explaining how we, Demisexuals, experience the concept of sexual attraction to those who experience the full spectrum of both primary and secondary attraction can be, I was going to say difficult but it's not exactly but it can be hard to … Continue reading Sexual Attraction and Sexual Arousal →

  I've written describing what Demsexuality is on this blog before. https://theworkingend.home.blog/2020/06/22/demisexuality/   but to give a quick overview a Demisexual is someone who does not, cannot and will not ever develop primary sexual attraction, and can only experience secondary sexual attraction once an emotional bond has developed with someone and whether Demisexuality is a real … Continue reading Demisexuals and Masturbation →

As a Demisexual, while searching through the net for more information, Your bound to come across a fair bit of crap written about it. "Your snowflakes", "Your just looking for attention", "Demisexuality doesn't exist", "Your just normal", "You haven't met the right one yet", "Your not LGBTQIA". But this...this is something else. I came across … Continue reading More crap about Demisexuals →

This is the second and incredibly long overdue post I've written on rope bondage or Shibari. I've written a post on single column ties on this blog, as well as a longer two part post on an introduction to shibari and some common ties for Downthebunnyrabbithole.com, which you can read by clicking the links below, … Continue reading Hishi Karada →